HIM: I’m 20 years old and am somewhat of a shy person when alone, but will become jovial in conversation when around a group. I work out and run every day because I’m on a sports team. On top of this I’m six-feet, four-inches, but these things do not make me Mr. Confident.

The thing is, there is this young woman that works at this place I go to lunch to every day, she’s told me she was single when we’d strike up small talk and shared some similar interests, but I’m just too shy ask her to go some place casual or anything like that. I know it seems like an Office Space thing, but that’s pretty much the closest kind of situation I can compare it to.

Wing Girls, please help me!!

WG: You are doing great, don’t trip! You are around dudes all day, and now you see a pretty girl and you are like tongue-tied. You are not alone! A lot of dudes feel like this! So now you have to make a move, and you are freakin’ out.

OK, so you need to chill and realize what’s happening. First thing you need to know is SHE WANTS YOU TO ASK HER OUT!!! Even if she has a bf or isn’t into you, girls love when guys ask them out. It’s extremely flattering, and it can never be a bad thing, unless the girl is a total biatch, but that doesn’t sound like the case here.

So you really are just paying her the ultimate compliment by asking her out. Just say, “Hey, I’d love to take you out sometime. Are you free this weekend?” And don’t worry how you say it or if you are nervous. It doesn’t matter at all. If she says yes, great. If she says no, MoveOn.org!!!

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