HIM: So, there is this one girl that I have liked since the end of the school year. She is a lifeguard at my pool, and she is really hot. She also did track and so did I, which is how we met.

However, a lot of the guys at my pool also think she’s hot and are flirting with her all of the time. What should I do to make myself stand out from the rest of the guys?

She has a nickname for me, “papa,” and she’s so sweet and funny and athletic and really hot. Haha. Also, she is going to be a senior in high school next year while I’m going to be a freshman in college.

Please help me with this one! I know I’m the only one that can treat her right, but I’m just not sure how to get her attention. Thank you so much for your time! You girls have saved my life.

WG: OK, so you don’t have to stand out, you have to ASK HER OUT. That’s how you’re going to stand out. All the other guys can flirt with her all they want, but you are going to be the one to actually ask her out.

Really hot girls complain about this all the time. “Oh, no guys ask me out. They all talk to me, but no one asks me out.” Plus, if she says no, you are in college and then who the fuck cares?! You’ll be like, that lifeguard from high school? Who’s that again? Hold on, I have to concentrate, let me pull myself away from all this hot freshmeat.

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