HIM: I have a question. OK, see, I have always been a guy that has never really been like, “I have got to get laid right now,” you know? I have always been more into the actual relationship than the sex. To be totally honest, I am 20 years old and I am still a virgin, because I can’t use a girl like that. I don’t know why that is. I have had girls say, “I would totally screw you if you would just say the word.” But they were girls that would not have a normal relationship, they would just be a booty call for me basically, but even if they want me to, I just don’t feel comfortable doing that. I have come to the point now that I am saying if I have lasted out this long, I may as well wait until I find the right girl before I decide to discard the v-card. Do you think this would be a good idea? How do girls view that type of thing? Is me being like this attractive to girls, or would they see it as weird?

WG: Hey, so first of all, 20 is not too old to be a virgin. There is nothing abnormal about you, so don’t worry about that. It’s charming and honorable that you don’t want to do it with just anyone. It means so much more when you’re in a real relationship with a girl. So hold out until you fall in love with a girl. She won’t think it’s odd at all that you’re a virgin. If she loves you too, she’ll be happy you waited for her. Just watch enough porn that you know what you’re doing when the time is right. ;)

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