THE ART OF LOVEQ & AMy boyfriend was with his ex for four years, and she calls him occasionally. He’s helped her move, and she goes to his house sometimes to hang out.
I asked him if they talked about marriage when they were together. He got real mad and said that the answer is just going to make me mad, and I should stop worrying about their friendship. Should I?
When she comes over he doesn’t talk to me or act like he’s even with me even though she knows we are together. What is that about?
—Julia
Dear Julia,
Asking if someone discussed marriage with a